Ethicist: Should I Let Go of My Zionist Friends?
I want to believe my friends are good people, but their Zionism challenges that belief—especially after two years of Israel’s genocide in Gaza. Should I end friendships with Zionist friends the way many have distanced themselves from me?
Context and Personal Conflict
I am a Jewish, anti-Zionist student. Since October 7th, when I became more vocal about my political views, most Zionist friends I grew up with have either distanced themselves or stopped talking to me. I still maintain friendships with a few Zionist students but find it increasingly difficult to navigate these relationships.
A friend is someone with whom we maintain a relationship based on shared affection.
Why do beliefs matter in friendships? Fundamentally, friendship is built on mutual affection, yet conflicting political beliefs, especially around such deeply sensitive and violent issues, create tension and doubt.
Author’s Reflection
This ethical dilemma reflects the struggle between loyalty to friends and moral convictions in contexts of profound political conflict.
Additional Perspectives and Context
- At Harvard Talk, Princeton’s President suggested colleges should establish explicit rules for protests regarding time, manner, and place.
- In Cambridge’s recent city council election, two challengers were elected alongside seven incumbents.
- IOP Director and Newton Mayor were commemorated for their exceptional public service drive.
- Kevin O’Leary from Shark Tank judged six Harvard startups at an HBS competition.
Author’s summary: Navigating friendships strained by political divides reveals the complex interplay between personal loyalty and ethical stance amid ongoing conflict.